Aryn Henning Nichols

Naomi Simon: Fought to the Top

Naomi Simon wrestling at U20 Championships and University of Iowa

“It just felt right.”

For Naomi Simon, Decorah’s hometown women’s wrestling hero, the decision to dedicate herself to wrestling was a simple one.

“Wrestling fits my body, it fits how I like to think about the world,” she says. 

And despite being an individual sport, Naomi insists that the real heart of wrestling is the supportive, tight-knit community it provides. “Wrestlers are really hard-working people,” she explains. “When you spend time around other wrestlers, you automatically have this point of connection that most people can’t understand.”

Finding Her Way to the Mats

While Naomi’s decision to try wrestling was her own, it does run in the family. Her dad, Matthew Simon, wrestled throughout high school and one year in college. Her younger sister, Anastasia, joined wrestling with a group of her friends at a young age. In fact, it was watching Anastasia compete at the Kid’s State Wrestling Tournament in Des Moines that inspired her own career in the sport.

Today, Naomi has an impressive list of accolades to her name: A four-time Iowa High School State Wrestling Champion with an undefeated record across all four years, the 2024 Dan Gable Ms. Wrestler of the Year, and, as of September 2024, a bronze medalist for Team USA at the 2024 U20 (Under 20) World Freestyle Wrestling Championships in Spain.

But no rise to the top happens without its challenges, and many heroes come from humble beginnings. This is certainly true of Naomi, who began her career as the only girl on the middle school boys’ wrestling team in Decorah, Iowa. When she joined wrestling in 7th grade, there was no girl’s program.

“Since it was technically a school sport, they couldn’t turn me away,” she says.

For most of that year, Naomi felt out of place among the boys, who weren’t very accepting. And she certainly wasn’t a natural talent – she recalls winning only four of the 20+ matches she competed. By the end of the season, Naomi was ready to walk away from the sport. Then, just prior to her 8th grade year, Decorah native and Iowa Wrestling Hall of Fame inductee Lee Fullhart moved back to town and began building a women’s program at the high school.

“He built an environment where I could just be an athlete and I didn’t have to worry about being bullied or singled out,” says Naomi. “He told me I would have a spot here, that I would be respected, and that I would have to put in the work just like anyone else. Sticking it out was one of the biggest challenges I’ve ever faced, but I haven’t looked back since”. 

Naomi Simon celebrates a wrestling win
Naomi (right) after a win on the Decorah High School wrestling team. She graduated in spring of 2024, finishing her high school wrestling career as a four-time State Wrestling Champion with an undefeated record across all four years. / Photo courtesy Melissa Simon

With a renewed excitement and a dedicated, determined group of teammates to train with, Naomi quickly rose to the top of the girls high school wrestling scene. And in 2022, Iowa Girls High School Athletic Union officially sanctioned women’s wrestling as a sport, making Iowa the 34th state nationally to do so. 

The sport’s popularity exploded across the state, and at the same time Naomi began to seek additional opportunities outside of the high school season. Supported by her community, she took the leap into the national wrestling scene.

National Wrestling

USA Wrestling is governed at the state level, with each state federation having its own leadership and methods of operating. “It can be really confusing the first time around, but it’s also very rewarding,” says Naomi.

In Iowa, the women’s program is directed by National Wrestling Hall of Fame inductee Charlotte Bailey and coached by former NCAA champion and University of Iowa Hall of Fame inductee Jeff McGinness

Like Coach Fullhart, Charlotte and Coach McGinness have had a massive impact on Naomi’s development, both on and off the mats. They are able to bring a group of girls from different locations across the state together into one strong, cohesive team, investing in and providing opportunities for each athlete. It is their leadership, commitment, and encouragement that has made Naomi’s time with Team Iowa, “some of the best wrestling experiences I have ever had”.

USA Wrestling competitions offered Naomi challenges and learning opportunities that high school matches no longer could. Not only was she facing more skilled opponents, but high school and USA wrestling competitions utilized different “styles” of wrestling and methods of determining scores to which she had to adapt. While many wrestlers will make a big deal out of the transitions from wrestling “folkstyle” in high school season to “freestyle” at USA or international meets, Naomi takes it all in stride. “At the end of the day, it’s just wrestling.”

In 2022, shortly after her sophomore year of high school, Naomi competed at the Youth Trials in Fort Worth, Texas. There, she lost her match for the first time in over two years. While a loss might be discouraging to some, it only energized Naomi. She quickly got to work with Coach McGinness, driving to his weekly training camps in all different areas of Iowa and pushing herself to compete at a higher and higher level. 

She credits her first Junior and 16 & Under National Championships – a tournament commonly referred to in the wrestling community as “Fargo,” as it takes place each year in Fargo, North Dakota – as being one of the biggest turning points in her career. Finishing 6th that year, she would go on to become the Fargo champion in 2023. 

Naomi and a crew at the World Championships in Spain
Naomi (second from left) poses with a crew (and her bronze medal) at the World Championships in Spain. / Photo courtesy Matt Simon

International Wrestling

In May of 2024, Naomi competed at the World Team Trials event in Spokane, Washington. She won the Under 20 Division, securing her a spot on the USA U20 World Championships team – which also meant her first chance at wrestling internationally. 

One requirement upon making the team was to travel to Colorado Springs at least once over the summer for training camps. These camps are held not only to ensure peak physical performance ahead of the big competition, but also to create and deepen bonds between athletes and coaches, as well as among teammates. 

In July, the World’s team traveled to Madrid, Spain, to get a feel for international competition and attend an additional camp. For Naomi, the hardest parts of the experience had little to do with the competition itself. “It was the things outside of wrestling – the long plane ride, adjusting to the time difference – and it was so hot – usually around 105 degrees!” she says. “Once I started wrestling, I didn’t have much of an issue.” 

Back in the states, the athletes returned to their home base for the last few weeks of preparation before flying to Spain again – Pontevedra this time – on August 31. Within 15 hours of landing, the team was in the gym, preparing. 

On September 6, Naomi competed in her first match at Worlds, against Mariia Orlevich of Ukraine. She lost by just one point – and then had to wait to find out if she would have the opportunity to compete in a second match.

Third place at U20 World Championships
The University of Iowa proudly announces Naomi’s third place win at the U20 World Championships. / Photo Facebook @IowaWomensWrestling

International wrestling competitions differ from US tournaments, in that they follow a Repechage Double Elimination bracket model. Essentially, if you win a match you automatically move on to the next stage. If you lose, you have to wait to see how well your opponent does in their next match. If your opponent wins again, you get added to the Repechage bracket and are afforded the chance to keep wrestling.

In the end, Orlevich advanced to the final and Naomi was given another match. Paired against one of the toughest competitors in the field, Japan’s Chisato Yoshida, Naomi had her work cut out for her. She delivered, dominating with a 9-0 victory and earning 3rd place in the 180 weight at her first international wrestling championship.

University of Iowa Wrestling 

In the fall of 2024, Naomi began her first year at the University of Iowa, studying health and human physiology. Knowing from a young age that she wouldn’t want to attend a small college,  she was thrilled when the Hawkeyes announced the addition of a women’s wrestling team in 2021. There, she is helping to define the emerging landscape of Division I women’s wrestling.

Now in their second year of competition, the Hawkeyes boast one of only four Division I women’s wrestling programs in the entire country. Of these four, the Hawkeyes are the only member of the Power Five Conference – the group of 69 Division I schools that boast the most prominent collegiate athletic programs in the nation. The other three – Presbyterian College, Sacred Heart University, and Lindenwood University – are all smaller, private, liberal arts institutions.

Currently, women’s wrestling is not recognized by the NCAA, meaning there is no official national tournament. However, it was named an NCAA Emerging Sport in 2020 and is projected to become official in 2026. 

Just over a month into wrestling season, Naomi confirms that deep bonds, camaraderie, and sportsmanship are just as present among the Hawkeyes as the other teams she has been a part of. These connections and friendships are important, if only because of the sheer amount of time the girls spend training together. Currently, Naomi attends five-to-six team wrestling practices, three lifts, one cardio session, and additional club wrestling practices (not affiliated with the University) each week.

Surprising no one, except perhaps herself, Naomi’s first collegiate season has had a successful start, beginning with the Luther Hill Open in Indianola, Iowa. Of the 18 Hawkeyes who competed, 13 earned top-three finishes.

First place at Indianola
@IowaWomensWrestling

“I was incredibly nervous to wrestle in Indianola,” she confesses. “It was my first collegiate competition, and I just didn’t know how it would go.” 

Naomi wrestled four matches, ultimately winning the 180 weight category. 

Their next meet, a double dual in Marietta, Georgia, saw the Hawkeyes come away with a 46-1 win over Hastings and a 30-14 victory over Life University, both NAIA teams. Naomi won both of her matches, then went on to win all three matches the following day at the Eagle Madness Open, also held in Marietta.

The Hawkeye’s final competition of the season will be the National Collegiate Women’s Wrestling Championships (NCWWC), which is scheduled for March 7-8, 2025, in Coralville, Iowa. Founded in 2019, the NCWWC offers the chance for all NCAA varsity women’s wrestling programs (Division I, II, and III) to compete at a high-level national competition at the end of the season. 

With many years ahead of her, Naomi looks forward to continued effort and improvement on the mats. In the same way that her journey has been inspired and supported by trailblazing women wrestlers and coaches before her, she will add her name to the legacy and influence future wrestlers and wrestling fans alike. With each practice, each match, and each victory, Naomi is not just making a name for herself but paving the way for the future of women’s wrestling. 

Clara Wodny

Clara Wodny is a senior at Luther College, studying English and Visual Communications. She recently returned to Decorah after spending a year abroad in England, where she attended the University of Nottingham. While there, she was a writer and Assistant Design Editor for IMPACT, a student-run magazine. She has written for a variety of news sites and magazines, including SwimSwam, SAGE Scholars, and Iowa Natural Heritage Foundation.

Closer to home, Luther College in Decorah recently announced the addition of a women’s wrestling  program, becoming the 39th Division III school to do so. The team is set to begin competition next fall for the 2025-2026 academic year.

8 Tips for Finding Connection

Connection graphic with California raisin

When the world feels full of darkness – both literally and figuratively – it’s easy to want to run away from it all. To cut yourself off and hunker down for the duration.

But the magic of life lives in the connections you make.

Connection can fit into a lot of different categories. Connection with yourself. Connection with another person – your partner, your kid, your parent, your neighbor. Connection with a group – a book club, folks in your neighborhood, your extended family. Connection with nature. Connection with your pets. Connection with your work.

It’s up to you to find the connections that best serve you. And sometimes you’ve really gotta push yourself out that door to make it happen. It can be hard! Trust me, I get it.

I’ve learned in recent years that I’m what’s called an “ambivert” – I have tendencies of both extroverts (hello, cheerleading background and putting myself out there each quarter in this very magazine) and introverts (Read all the books! Watch movies on the couch! Putter around the house!). 

I feel most closely aligned with introverts, to be honest. Sure, I’m good in a crowd and can talk to pretty much anyone, but I love a quiet house and hours to myself. But there is always a tipping point, when alone time wavers over into loneliness, and I recognize that I need contact and connection to feel whole and grounded and part of this planet.

When I was thinking about the themes for this entire year, including this winter issue, it was early 2024. A whole calendar stretched ahead, full of promise and possibility. Now, here we are, at the end of that year. What have you learned about yourself and others? What types of connections do you need? What sorts of possibilities are ahead for you in 2025? 

(Hint: Read our 8 Tips for Finding Connection below, then hop over Inspire(d) Mental Health writer Olivia Lynn Schnur’s piece about connection to get some more ideas.)

Every day is an opportunity to learn more, change perspectives, do something different. Every day is an experiment in humanity. And we’re all connected through that humanity. We’re all in this together. So: My hope, this winter season, is that we all find the collective strength to work toward a better future.

Happy New Year, dear readers. You inspire me.

XOXO,
-Aryn

8 Tips for Finding Connection infographic

8 Tips for Finding Connection

1. Assume positive intent

When you approach people with suspicion, you’re likely to find suspicious behavior. When you approach them with honesty and openness, it’s often reflected back

2. Put in the effort

Anything worthwhile is going to take some doing / planning / willingness to put yourself out there. Looking for a place to start? Do activities you enjoy…in public. Odds are you’ll find a like-minded individual you might hang out with in the future. 

Want to push yourself? Try learning something new – and meet others doing the same thing!

3. Skip the small talk

People are generally sick of it. Don’t be afraid to dive into questions you actually care about – if the people you’re asking care about them too, you’re more likely to find connection

4. Put down your phone
(Wonder how many times we’ve put this phrase in an infographic?)

We can’t say this often enough. If you’ve got someone across the table / in the room / present with you, you should be present with them. Put your device away and do real life conversation. Listen. Be heard. Repeat & enjoy!

5. Extend and accept invitations

Show appreciation for new connections.

6. Be yourself!

It can be awkward and make you feel vulnerable, but you’re looking to find people who connect with you – so you gotta be your own genuine, authentic brand of you!

P.S. Understand you’re not always for everyone – and that’s okay!

7.  Be aware of your social stamina

Not everyone gets energy from being around others. Don’t be hard on yourself if you need some time to recharge your extrovert battery for the next outing.

8. Connect with yourself.

Try these ideas:
Journaling
Counseling Sessions
Meditation
Taking walk in nature
Making a vision board

Check out our Mental Health section to explore even more prompts that help you look within.

Martha Deines

My grandma, Martha Grace (Andrews) Deines, exudes love, happiness, and safety. I’m lucky to call her a close confidant and dear friend. In her life so far, she’s been a pastor’s wife; a mother of six (the six D’s – David, Dana, Dawn, Diedre, Darla, and Danette); and the best grandmother to 12 and great-grandmother to an ever-growing number! Martha’s greatest point of pride is the love and care she has for her family and close family friends! Martha – who just turned 90 years young in April 2024 – is quiet, calm, and positive. She’s a woman of few words, but always straightforward answers. She is easy-going and goes with the flow.

Martha Deines with granddaughter (and interviewer) Lynsey D. Moritz

She can often be found in her home in Greene, Iowa, knitting a blanket for a loved-one, working on a puzzle, or watching a sporting event. Beyond this reserved exterior, she is one of the most resilient, strong, and selfless humans. Martha will be the first to tell you how much she loves you and how proud she is of you. Her bright, genuine smile and laughter lights up a room. Maya Angelou’s words come to mind, “I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” And my grandma makes the people around her feel loved – she is always their biggest cheerleader. Her energy is, quite simply, soothing for the soul. Sometimes it is hard to hear over our busy lives and the distracting world around us, but when friends and family who know Martha get the time to connect and pay attention, they feel truly seen and held within her deep love and genuine uplifting words.

Martha and John with the “six Ds” – David, Dana, Dawn, Diedre, Darla, and Danette.

Try to describe yourself in one sentence: Happy, married, mother… proud of my family! Content.

Best advice you have received:  Well, probably just, “play it cool” and don’t go to bed angry.

What did you want to be when you grew up?  I wanted to be a teacher, and I was! I was an elementary school teacher for a handful of years. I also helped my husband, John (who was a pastor at UNI) as his secretary. We made a good team, and it was nice for him to not have to worry about those types of things. I have very fond memories of our time at the UNI Lutheran Student Center. I continue to have good connections with people from that time and place that are very important in my life! (Martha still has season tickets to UNI Volleyball and attends nearly every home game!)

Do you remember your first job? I worked at the park in the summer – entertaining and teaching kids. I have always liked being around children, with my job as a teacher and stay-at-home mother of six!

Is there something you’ve done that you are proud of? 

Leading the band as the drum major in high school!

If you could eat anything every day for the rest of your life, what would it be? Ice cream! Preferably, butter pecan! (Shortly after she answered this question, someone knocked on the door to remind her about an ice cream social happening that afternoon! I believe she manifested it ~ magical Martha!)

If you were stranded on an island, what would you bring? Water… and ice cream! And my knitting to stay entertained.

How did you meet Grandpa? We met at a carnival that was in town when we were teenagers! We both grew up in Greene, IA, but we were in different grades and attended different churches, so we didn’t really know each other until then.

What was one of the best decisions you’ve ever made? Marrying John… the kids, grandkids, great-grandkids, and all of the joy our life together brought! He left too soon.

Martha and John on their wedding day.

Do you remember your wedding day? The weather was so beautiful that day. It was at St. Peter Lutheran Church where John’s father was the pastor. It is the church I attend now, after living in a lot of different places for John’s church callings as a pastor himself… Feels very good, very full circle, to have ended up back in Greene.

Do you have any advice for love or relationships? Be comfortable with each other and be honest at all costs.

What do you hope for the future of your family? Happiness! Good health! Do creative things and surround yourself with people you enjoy.